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The Wonder of Interpersonal Relationships VIb: Abraham Lincoln as an Exemplar of Relating Midst Differences

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We are not confined to traditional sources of expertise in such a setting because the relationship and the discourse is itself reality and the primary source of expertise. From the perspective of Ken and Mary Gergen, it is a matter of not just sustaining the relationship in the midst of differences, it is a matter of recognizing that the differences themselves enhance the relationship and enable those engaged in the relationship to come to a sense of shared truth through constructive dialogue.

Conclusions

Faced with the challenges of VUCA-Plus either as a mid-19th Century leader or as the leader of an organization, community or nation in a mid-21st Century setting, the role played by constructive dialogue in the midst of diversity might be critical. Abraham Lincoln and Doris Kearns Goodman seem to think so. It is in this constructive dialogue among rivals that Lincoln finds a blending of his two fundamental dreams regarding relationships and achievement.

Lincoln’s desire to receive the esteem of his fellow men (stated as a 23 year old) is wedded with his commitment to preserve a nation “conceived in Liberty, and dedicated to the proposition that all men are created equal” (stated as president). As Kearn Goodwin (2005, p. 749) declared, Abraham Lincoln truly belongs to the ages and is not only to be revered not only as a leader, but also as a teacher of ways in which to retain relationships in the midst of differences.
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References

Bergquist, William (2003) Creating the Appreciative Organization. Harpswell, Maine: Pacific Sounds Press.

Bergquist, William (2020) “Leadership and Anxiety: Containment and Metabolism I: Anxiety in a VUCA Plus Environment. Library of Professional Psychology. https://psychology.edu/library/leadership-and-anxiety-containment-and-metabolism-i-anxiety-in-a-vuca-plus-environment/

Gergen, Kenneth (2000) The Saturated Self. (Rev.Ed.) New York: Basic Books.

Gergen, Kenneth and Mary Gergen (2004) Social Construction: Entering the Dialogue. Chagrin Falls, Ohio: Taos Institute Publications.

Hughes, Marcia and James Bradford Terrell (2007) The Emotional Intelligent Team. San Francisco: Jossey-Bass.

Johansson, Franz (2004) The Medici Effect: Breakthrough Insights at the Intersection of Ideas, Concepts and Cultures. Boston, MA: Harvard Business School Press.

Kearns Goodwin, Doris (2005) Team of Rivals. New York: Simon and Schuster.

Malone, Thomas (2004) The Future of Work: How the New Order of Business Will Shape Your Organization, Your Management Style and Your Life, Brighton, MA: Harvard Business Review Press.

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